Coaching and Mentoring by John Pendal
Kink mentoring and life coaching is now available from BDSM educator and former International Mr Leather, John Pendal - either as calls to individuals and relationship groups, or workshops to larger numbers. (A list of workshops available can be found here.)
The services offered are different for each client. Some are in relationships and want help getting around issues, (different kinks/ different ideas of foreplay/ struggling with domesticity and being kinky) - some are individuals who are planning on a new kink and want advice or information. Other people need help getting over mental blocks or negative thoughts which are stopping them from enjoying the life they want to lead.
Each session is individually tailored, with questions in advance and a written summary sent afterwards so you don't need to take notes. There is voluntary homework (theory and/ or practical - depending on your needs) and the results discussed in feedback sessions. Everything is done with your consent. Usually there is one hour long call a week for the participant, with John also preparing questions, homework and summary notes.
(No personal information is stored without your consent and is deleted on request or after sessions are completed. Registered with the Information Commissioner's Office for data protection.)
Please send a message via the form at www.leatherlondonguide.com/contact-me.html if you are interested.
The services offered are different for each client. Some are in relationships and want help getting around issues, (different kinks/ different ideas of foreplay/ struggling with domesticity and being kinky) - some are individuals who are planning on a new kink and want advice or information. Other people need help getting over mental blocks or negative thoughts which are stopping them from enjoying the life they want to lead.
Each session is individually tailored, with questions in advance and a written summary sent afterwards so you don't need to take notes. There is voluntary homework (theory and/ or practical - depending on your needs) and the results discussed in feedback sessions. Everything is done with your consent. Usually there is one hour long call a week for the participant, with John also preparing questions, homework and summary notes.
(No personal information is stored without your consent and is deleted on request or after sessions are completed. Registered with the Information Commissioner's Office for data protection.)
Please send a message via the form at www.leatherlondonguide.com/contact-me.html if you are interested.
"John Pendal is an awesome presenter!" - Midori
TESTIMONIALS
"John is an excellent listener - he will take his time getting to know you and your interests, give you a combination of things to think about, point you to references and resources in the gay/kink world, and provide practical advice about how to start or restart a life in kink." - Anthony
"Thank you for spending your time and sharing your knowledge with us yesterday. I found it very interesting. With almost seven weeks of being isolated inside in my apartment it's nice to get some food for thought, on something other than corona." - Kilina
"John is an excellent listener - he will take his time getting to know you and your interests, give you a combination of things to think about, point you to references and resources in the gay/kink world, and provide practical advice about how to start or restart a life in kink." - Anthony
"Thank you for spending your time and sharing your knowledge with us yesterday. I found it very interesting. With almost seven weeks of being isolated inside in my apartment it's nice to get some food for thought, on something other than corona." - Kilina
RESOURCES
John has created a model to describe BDSM sexuality, which can help people to analyse the kind of scenes they are looking for. You can read about the model here.
From 2003-2005 John wrote an advice column, and some of the answers related to kink. There's a list of the columns here.
Greenery Press have also published a range of pocket guides to various forms of BDSM (www.greenerypress.com/toybag-guides---a-workshop/) - available from many online booksellers.
John has created a model to describe BDSM sexuality, which can help people to analyse the kind of scenes they are looking for. You can read about the model here.
From 2003-2005 John wrote an advice column, and some of the answers related to kink. There's a list of the columns here.
Greenery Press have also published a range of pocket guides to various forms of BDSM (www.greenerypress.com/toybag-guides---a-workshop/) - available from many online booksellers.
"Thanks for the workshop you did online today. My partner was on the call and it gave us a great opportunity to talk about our own desires and boundaries! Thank you." - Rob, Melbourne
BIO
John is a cisgender gay man (pronouns he/ him). In 2003 he became the 25th person to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then he has travelled extensively teaching BDSM workshops around the world, including at Beyond Leather in Fort Lauderdale, Down an Dirty in Melbourne, Edgeplay Scotland in Edinburgh, HunCon in Budapest, Inferno, Kinkferansen in Oslo, Leather Camp in Wichita, the London Alternative Market, Lupercalia in Canada, Minnesota Leather Pride, Mr Leatherman Toronto, Palm Springs Leather Pride, Rome BDSM Conference, SINSations in Leather, SM Bergen in Norway, Spring in the South in Atlanta, Tribal Fire in Oklahoma, and Thunder in the Mountains in Denver (every year from 2007 to 2017).
For John's full leather bio please check out www.leatherlondonguide.com/profile.html
John is a cisgender gay man (pronouns he/ him). In 2003 he became the 25th person to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then he has travelled extensively teaching BDSM workshops around the world, including at Beyond Leather in Fort Lauderdale, Down an Dirty in Melbourne, Edgeplay Scotland in Edinburgh, HunCon in Budapest, Inferno, Kinkferansen in Oslo, Leather Camp in Wichita, the London Alternative Market, Lupercalia in Canada, Minnesota Leather Pride, Mr Leatherman Toronto, Palm Springs Leather Pride, Rome BDSM Conference, SINSations in Leather, SM Bergen in Norway, Spring in the South in Atlanta, Tribal Fire in Oklahoma, and Thunder in the Mountains in Denver (every year from 2007 to 2017).
For John's full leather bio please check out www.leatherlondonguide.com/profile.html
Page updated 8 October 2020
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You are welcome to link to any page of this site but text must not be reprinted without permission from the author.
