Coaching and Kink Mentoring by John Pendal
“John is a very approachable man who inspires confidence. I felt happy talking to him about my problems and felt happier each time we completed a session. I would definitely recommend him” - Dave
Kink mentoring and life coaching are now available from BDSM educator and former International Mr Leather, John Pendal - either as video calls to individuals and relationship groups, or workshops to larger numbers. (A list of workshops available can be found here.)
KINK MENTORING
I have 17 years experience teaching BDSM workshops around the world. My passion is helping people find their way in the tribes of kink, leather and BDSM. One-to-one sessions are completely confidential and individually tailored.
I have 17 years experience teaching BDSM workshops around the world. My passion is helping people find their way in the tribes of kink, leather and BDSM. One-to-one sessions are completely confidential and individually tailored.
"John is an excellent listener - he will take his time getting to know you and your interests, give you a combination of things to think about, point you to references and resources in the gay/kink world, and provide practical advice about how to start or restart a life in kink." - Anthony
LIFE COACHING
I am relatable rather than aspirational. During my life I have experienced negative thoughts, gay conversion therapy, coeliac disease, back surgery and identify as autistic.
I want to help other people, especially those who feel like an outsider. You may feel that way because of your gender or sexuality, neurodiversity, health diagnosis or just a feeling of "not fitting in". I will listen and ask questions in total confidence and without judgement.
I specialise in coaching for self acceptance and happiness. My work includes helping newly diagnosed autistic folk work out what that means, discovering where masking ends and you begin, and how to change your life to better fit your neurology.
Coaching can help with all areas of your life. I have helped people discover who they are, what their passions are, find their voice, achieve goals, accept themselves, grow in confidence, be happier and change their lives.
If you would like an introductory call please fill in the form at www.leatherlondonguide.com/contact-me.html (You are welcome to wear dark glasses during calls, have the camera turned off, switch to text chat, fidget, info-dump or anything else that will make you feel more comfortable.)
I am relatable rather than aspirational. During my life I have experienced negative thoughts, gay conversion therapy, coeliac disease, back surgery and identify as autistic.
I want to help other people, especially those who feel like an outsider. You may feel that way because of your gender or sexuality, neurodiversity, health diagnosis or just a feeling of "not fitting in". I will listen and ask questions in total confidence and without judgement.
I specialise in coaching for self acceptance and happiness. My work includes helping newly diagnosed autistic folk work out what that means, discovering where masking ends and you begin, and how to change your life to better fit your neurology.
Coaching can help with all areas of your life. I have helped people discover who they are, what their passions are, find their voice, achieve goals, accept themselves, grow in confidence, be happier and change their lives.
If you would like an introductory call please fill in the form at www.leatherlondonguide.com/contact-me.html (You are welcome to wear dark glasses during calls, have the camera turned off, switch to text chat, fidget, info-dump or anything else that will make you feel more comfortable.)
"John Pendal is an awesome presenter!" - Midori
HOW DOES IT WORK?
Coaching takes place over instant messenger, audio or video calls, so you can be calling from anywhere in the world. You need to be sitting somewhere quiet and private where you can think and speak without being overheard.
We start with a free call to get to know one another. If you wish to continue we will discuss the best way forward for you (number of calls, duration, dates and times) and sign a coaching agreement. Sessions are paid at the time of booking and can be cancelled up to 24 hours notice with no charge - after that the full fee is payable.
This is not a sexual service and sessions are client led.
QUALIFICATIONS AND MEMBERSHIPS
FAA Level 2 Award in First Aid for Mental Health
Accredited coach with Animas Centre for Coaching
Associate coach with Thriving Autistic
Member of the Gay Coaches Alliance
CONFIDENTIALITY
I will need to store your phone number or email electronically to set up the calls. I will also ask if I can take hand-written notes during the calls without using your name. I won't divulge to anyone that you are being coached or anything you've shared. If we meet socially I won't make reference to your calls. (I'm happy for you to tell other people if you want to make a referral.)
(Registered with the Information Commissioner's Office for data protection. I have passed checks from the Disclosure & Barring Service in Feb 2021 and the Irish Vetting Service in June 2021 and can send proof on request.)
For more information check out my life coaching website at www.johnpendal.com
Coaching takes place over instant messenger, audio or video calls, so you can be calling from anywhere in the world. You need to be sitting somewhere quiet and private where you can think and speak without being overheard.
We start with a free call to get to know one another. If you wish to continue we will discuss the best way forward for you (number of calls, duration, dates and times) and sign a coaching agreement. Sessions are paid at the time of booking and can be cancelled up to 24 hours notice with no charge - after that the full fee is payable.
This is not a sexual service and sessions are client led.
QUALIFICATIONS AND MEMBERSHIPS
FAA Level 2 Award in First Aid for Mental Health
Accredited coach with Animas Centre for Coaching
Associate coach with Thriving Autistic
Member of the Gay Coaches Alliance
CONFIDENTIALITY
I will need to store your phone number or email electronically to set up the calls. I will also ask if I can take hand-written notes during the calls without using your name. I won't divulge to anyone that you are being coached or anything you've shared. If we meet socially I won't make reference to your calls. (I'm happy for you to tell other people if you want to make a referral.)
(Registered with the Information Commissioner's Office for data protection. I have passed checks from the Disclosure & Barring Service in Feb 2021 and the Irish Vetting Service in June 2021 and can send proof on request.)
For more information check out my life coaching website at www.johnpendal.com
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TESTIMONIALS
"I was skeptical at first and not sure what to expect. Within the first session with John, I could see a path forming ahead for things which I'd been going in circles over for years" - David
"John is so very kind and understanding. He creates a safe, non-judgemental space for me to feel completely relaxed and heard. I'm so grateful to have met John and to him for helping me find a way to move forward in a positive and proactive way. Thank you John, my compass was broken and you've helped me fix it." - Ms Jones
"I was skeptical at first and not sure what to expect. Within the first session with John, I could see a path forming ahead for things which I'd been going in circles over for years" - David
"John is so very kind and understanding. He creates a safe, non-judgemental space for me to feel completely relaxed and heard. I'm so grateful to have met John and to him for helping me find a way to move forward in a positive and proactive way. Thank you John, my compass was broken and you've helped me fix it." - Ms Jones
RESOURCES
I have created a model to describe BDSM sexuality, which can help people to analyse the kind of scenes they are looking for. You can read about the model here.
From 2003-2005 I wrote an advice column, and some of the answers related to kink. There's a list of the columns here.
Greenery Press have also published a range of pocket guides to various forms of BDSM (www.greenerypress.com/toybag-guides---a-workshop/) - available from many online booksellers.
I have created a model to describe BDSM sexuality, which can help people to analyse the kind of scenes they are looking for. You can read about the model here.
From 2003-2005 I wrote an advice column, and some of the answers related to kink. There's a list of the columns here.
Greenery Press have also published a range of pocket guides to various forms of BDSM (www.greenerypress.com/toybag-guides---a-workshop/) - available from many online booksellers.
"Thanks for the workshop you did online today. My partner was on the call and it gave us a great opportunity to talk about our own desires and boundaries! Thank you." - Rob, Melbourne
BIO
I am a cisgender gay man (pronouns he/ him). In 2003 I became the 25th person to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then I have travelled extensively teaching BDSM workshops around the world, including at Beyond Leather in Fort Lauderdale, Down an Dirty in Melbourne, Edgeplay Scotland in Edinburgh, HunCon in Budapest, Inferno, Kinkferansen in Oslo, Leather Camp in Wichita, the London Alternative Market, Lupercalia in Canada, Minnesota Leather Pride, Mr Leatherman Toronto, Palm Springs Leather Pride, Rome BDSM Conference, SINSations in Leather, SM Bergen in Norway, Spring in the South in Atlanta, Tribal Fire in Oklahoma, and Thunder in the Mountains in Denver (every year from 2007 to 2017).
For my full leather bio please check out www.leatherlondonguide.com/profile.html
I am a cisgender gay man (pronouns he/ him). In 2003 I became the 25th person to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then I have travelled extensively teaching BDSM workshops around the world, including at Beyond Leather in Fort Lauderdale, Down an Dirty in Melbourne, Edgeplay Scotland in Edinburgh, HunCon in Budapest, Inferno, Kinkferansen in Oslo, Leather Camp in Wichita, the London Alternative Market, Lupercalia in Canada, Minnesota Leather Pride, Mr Leatherman Toronto, Palm Springs Leather Pride, Rome BDSM Conference, SINSations in Leather, SM Bergen in Norway, Spring in the South in Atlanta, Tribal Fire in Oklahoma, and Thunder in the Mountains in Denver (every year from 2007 to 2017).
For my full leather bio please check out www.leatherlondonguide.com/profile.html
Page updated 3 September 2021
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You are welcome to link to any page of this site but text must not be reprinted without permission from the author.
